Hello Bloggers,
Well this being a new mommy thing has kept me busy and left with little time to post – though I am still reading your blogs daily. For the most part we are all doing really well. Sometimes the sleep deprivation pushes me over the edge and it’s not easy being the milk mama night after night, hour after hour. But I am not complaining. I love the bonding Mr. E and I experience and I do fall back to sleep quickly. I just don’t know why he can sleep four hours at a time during the day and only 2 -3 hours at a time at night (perhaps I should just count my blessings that he sleeps 2-3 hour stretches at night).
A went back to student teaching last Tuesday and my mom came for the week. Mr. E and I had a lot of fun with my mom. We went shopping, out to lunch, and planned a ‘meet Mr. E party’ for when we go to the Cape next month. Mom spoiled us by buying take out (delivery, no less) every night! She does not have this luxury where she lives and loves to indulge when she visits us.
Mr. E continued his visiting when he meet my cousin and her partner yesterday and then spent this morning with my dad who drove out to visit for the day. He’s got another visitor coming this afternoon, one of my best friends from childhood. It’s so great to see all these people and to get to show Mr. E off, but I am also exhausted and plan to start implementing nap time starting tomorrow. I will nap at least once every day. I’ve only taken about two naps since he came home, and it’s starting to show…
I’ve written a bit in the past about our sick cat, Lou. He’s had digestive problems for four years and we’ve carried out an intense daily medical regimen for the last year and a half. When he got sick in December we were told the medicine was no longer working and our only option was surgery (seriously, the Vet would not talk about euthanasia – that’s a whole other story). After much thought A and I decided the next time he got sick we needed to put him down. We felt the surgery was extreme and his quality of life post surgery was questionable. He was doing really well, and had been off meds for two weeks, but yesterday he got sick really fast, and it was clear he was in so much pain that we could not make him wait till Monday when out Vet was open, so we opted to take him to an emergency animal hospital and had him put to sleep last night. It was really really really hard. Not a decision we made lightly, but we know we did the right thing. He was eerily quiet on the ride there (he usually cries and bangs around in his carrier when in the car) and didn’t make a peep once inside the hospital (he usually hisses upon entering the Vet’s office). I took his silence as a sign that he was ready to go, that he’d fought long enough. We’ll miss you Lou.








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January 27, 2008 at 4:25 pm
Amanda
I’m sorry to hear about Lou. Hearing about people putting their animals down makes me so sad.
I once went with my parents to an emergency vet office on a Sunday evening when their dog was sick. Of all the people who brought their animals in (about 6-7), only my parents actually left with their dog. Everyone else had their animals put down. We were there for awhile and it was the saddest thing I have ever seen.
But…I think if the time comes and my animals are suffering, I would much rather put them out of their misery. However, I’m completely attached to my dogs and cannot even begin to think of my life without them.
January 27, 2008 at 4:31 pm
tbean
So sorry for your loss of Lou. But sounds like it was the right time, so at least you can be at peace with the decision.
January 27, 2008 at 5:57 pm
Jude
I am so sorry to hear about Lou. He was a sweet cat and I’m glad we got to spend some time together. I’m sure you guys served each other well. Rest in peace, Lou. xo
January 27, 2008 at 9:29 pm
Lo
So sorry to hear about Lou. Clearly you did the kindest thing for him, though. Good parents, all around.
January 27, 2008 at 10:44 pm
Calliope
sending love your way. Very sorry for the loss of beautiful Lou. The photos of him are stunning.
xo
January 28, 2008 at 8:11 am
veeandjay
So sorry about Lou. Even when you know it’s the right time, it’s hard to say goodbye. He sure was a beautiful cat.
January 28, 2008 at 9:50 am
chris
oh, i am so sorry to hear about having to put lou down. what a tough thing to have to deal with at a time when you are so sleep deprived and figuring out how to be new mamas. hugs. glad you had a nice visit with your mom. hope things are going ok since a went back to student teaching last week. love the new pics. mr. e is just gorgeous!
January 28, 2008 at 10:11 am
Melody
Just echoing everyone’s sympathy about Lou. I know you’ve lost a dear friend.
January 28, 2008 at 1:45 pm
ohchicken
i am so so sorry about mr lou. i understand the ache of making that kind of decision, and i hope you find a whole lot of comfort in the face that you gave him peace and relief. and a life full of love. what a gift you and a. have been to him.
xo
January 28, 2008 at 2:35 pm
byrdlady
Oh i’m so sorry to hear about your kitty. What a beautiful photo that is of him at the top… i’m glad you found peace in your decision, and know that he is resting with no pain now.
January 28, 2008 at 3:13 pm
E.
I’m sorry about your cat. That made me cry, thinking about the same thing happening to my cat one day.